The Strong Stoic Podcast
The Strong Stoic Podcast
#419 - Give Your Past Self Some Grace
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We all know we should learn from our mistakes.
But somewhere along the way, many of us confuse self-reflection with self-punishment.
In this episode, I explore the difference between shadow work and self-loathing. Drawing from Stoicism, Carl Jung, Seneca, Dostoevsky, and Tolkien, I examine why looking honestly at our flaws is necessary—and why beating ourselves up for them isn’t.
The goal isn’t to ignore your mistakes.
The goal is to face them honestly, learn from them, and move forward without carrying unnecessary suffering.
Because grace is a paradox:
“I accept you exactly as you are, and I believe you can become more.”
That applies not only to your friends and family.
It applies to you.